Each year we blow out our birthday candles. We celebrate the fact that we grow one year older. What happened during that previous year that merits a celebration? As Abraham Lincoln has said: “In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years”. Doing, realizing makes us living in our years. Talking, waiting makes us ageing in our life. Alive leaders blow out the candles of proactivity.